My husband and I recently attended a couples workshop over a series of weekends. It was based on the book The Love Dare. You follow the faith-based program for 40 days, and you have daily tasks that you have to do for your partner. It was a real eye opener for my husband and I. I think we are the better for having done it. It is biblically based, but many of the tasks are simply "Golden Rule" kind fo things like being kind, considerate, generous, etc. I highly recomend it.